Crystal Clear or Clear as Mud?

This read is really about finding your purpose, gaining clarity, and building a solid plan on how to truly get what you desire and deserve in your life. I know I talk a lot about love. But really this is this can be for any area of your life. I really think you should use it for all areas of your life expand, don't just narrow and think that it has to be for attracting someone you want in your life, use it for getting that job you want or that promotion or manifesting X amount of money into your life. This really is for any and every area of your life, you're not limited. The first thing that I really need you to do is to get clear with what you want.



This is not new, everyone, and anyone talks about this, who is in the self development, life coaching space, and it's to gain clarity around what you so badly want to attract into your life. Now, I mainly talk about attracting that partner. But again, this is I use this for every area. And when you create a strong detailed plan in your life, this starts to exude into all the other areas. And I didn't really get this in till not too long ago when I really started to see how it unfolded into all the other areas. But before I used to just get into one area at a time and focus there. But I was missing the the big picture. And now when I write the detailed plan, and I revisit this monthly because I always want to go back and see how far I've come. But also start adding to it to see how much more I can get. And what do I need to do to do that. Gaining clarity is you need to really sit with yourself, and listen to yourself about what you want.


So if you're thinking so in your life, right now, think about what is missing, or what you want more of, or what you need to get rid of in order to introduce a new part of your life. For me, when I think about my life, I think that I need maybe more clients, or I want more money, or I need to make more money because I want to buy this thing. So think about where you are right now. And what needs to change. Well, you need to change in order to become that person who has this life that you so badly desire. So if you're sitting there right now, and you are in a relationship with someone, but you know, deep down, it's not working. And that's an area you need to focus on. And you need to start writing out exactly what type of relationship you want, and what you deserve and what you desire. What does that look like? What does that feel like? Who is this person that you're trying to attract into your life to give you that relationship, but then also, who do you need to become in order to attract a person like that. And if it is stained with the, with the person you're with, that needs to be a conversation with what needs to change in order to have this relationship that you're wanting, and then in another area. So let's go with health and wellness. This is a such important area that I think a lot of us put to the wayside. And I think it's one of the most important ones because this is where and maybe I'm speaking for myself, but this is really where your confidence exudes from. So it's how you feel how you present yourself to people. That is how you are taking care of yourself on the inside. And then on the outside, ask yourself:

If you want to be a healthy person, what does that look like?

  • Is there a specific lifestyle you need to follow?

  • Are there specific foods that you just need to eat?

  • Is there a fitness routine that you need to get involved in?

  • Is there daily habits that you need to implement?


I don't want you to limit yourself, I don't want you to think that you can't have it because of where you are. Now, I want you to reach for those goals, because you are enough right now to have everything that you want. And then this goes into other areas. So money, a lot of us have a lot of limiting beliefs around money. A lot of us have a lot of limiting beliefs around a lot of things in our life. But I think not a lot of people talk about the money part. And it wasn't until recently that I got clear with my own money situation. Many, many of you guys know if you've been following my journey, I went through damn near bankruptcy a couple years ago, going through my separation and into my divorce. Because I was trying to do all the things. And I was maxing out every area of my life trying to just scrape by.



And then I was taking on, you know, side hustles trying to accommodate my lifestyle and keep up with the bills that were coming in that I was drowning. But my other life was doing really well. But I knew I needed to clean up that financial side. So what one thing that I was doing was avoiding I was avoiding the bills I was avoiding the debt that was piling up, I was avoiding my spending habits, I was avoiding what I needed to do because I felt shame in what my situation came to. I felt like I was this professional trying to keep up in the world and still maintain that same lifestyle, but I wasn't doing the things to be that person because I was avoiding a

voiding avoiding. And I was not getting clear with what I needed to do. So it wasn't until I made an appointment with a consultant to give me some direction on what I needed to do to start cleaning up this mess that I created for myself. And he gave me two options, bankruptcy or consumer proposal. He didn't advise bankruptcy in my situation, because it wasn't bad enough for me to go down that route that route. So I took the consumer proposal. And that was in 2018, And if you don't know what that means, look it up. And now we are that was supposed to take, I think it was six years to pay off. And this was another limiting belief I had, that it was gonna take six years to pay it off. And this next month, it'll be paid off. So I don't need to be attached to I don't need to feel shame around this debt or this mess that I'd created because I started a plan to get rid of it. And I'm on the right track to getting rid of it. I was not educated in the areas of financial abundance or situation I thought that was bad. I thought debt was you know, you had to feel bad if you had it, I thought that I could never make enough money to pay off the debt. I thought that I had to get locked into these long term plans to pay off this debt when really that wasn't the case.


I just needed to face what was happening. address it, make a plan and stick to it. So the planning and the action part. And since then, my financial status has elevated like so much, because I got really clear. I made a plan and I've been sticking to it. And every month I revisit my budget every month I start to get more education around how to save more, earn more and just do better. So that I know I don't want to go back to the space I was before. I don't want to be in that situation. I want to be better. So it's not a case of cutting down my spending or the way that I want to live. It was how do I make more money doing the things I love. And still putting more and more money on to this debt. So it was the clarity that got me more clear. And I'm still learning and I'm still trying to be better. And I think that is a thing in any case, is we need to continuously be learning to be better. And I didn't want to be in this downward downward spiral of financial fear.


I didn't want to be scared of the money that I needed to pay or the money that I was making or scared that I was going to lose it at any time. I didn't want to have those beliefs anymore, because that is how I was before I believed those things. So I was stuck in the same spot for a long, long time, until I started to really let that go. And this is, can be transformed into any areas of your life. You don't need to think that there's only one way to do things. You don't need to think that you're only limited to a certain amount or a certain way or you can only have this or that I need you to really if you take anything away from this video, I need you to really believe that you can have everything that you want you can have the relationship you can have the good health, you can have the financial abundance, you can have the abundance in all areas of your life. If you are clear with what you want, and you take action on how to get there.


You can have everything you desire, you just need to know what that is.


Do you know what you want?




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